Things for living a happy life with family

We always want to be happy and see our family members happy. But we see that most of the people are finding it difficult to live a happy life with and this is becoming a main cause of breakup of families. Parents are being divorced. Kids are running away from home and this thing is becoming main cause of depression. Sometimes it leads to suicides also or people get addicted to drugs, alcoholic things. If there is a will there is always a way. We all know that our life has become very hectic and busy due to the advanced world. Every person in a family has got their likes and dislikes. Sometimes this leads to a fight in the family. Kids in the house can’t be an exception for this. Small kids like watching TV every day. If a family has got more than 1 kid in the house it becomes quite difficult to manage both the kids. Both the kids like different channels on TV and sometimes we see them fighting because both kids have different choices of channels to watch. This fight creates different feeling in both the kids and it leads to a unhappiness between them. We also see kids fighting when parents are not at home. We all know that today’s world is modernized and women are working side by side of men. Hence most of the modern mothers aren’t at home when kids are coming back from school or doing their homework. Since there is no one to take care of kids at home, kids starting fight with each other. This can be avoided by paying more attention towards kids. It is not happening only because of kids but parents and elder people in family are equally responsible for a unrest in a family. Parents are going at work every day and coming late night. Not getting enough time to spend with family. Getting pressure at work and sometimes starting a fight at home right in front of kids. Not giving importance to others opinion. To create a bonding in a family, it’s very essential that we spend some quality time with family. Sitting with kids and talking about the study at school and home. Also taking them out for a bicycle ride or taking them to a park every Sunday .This will definitely create a happiness and good feeling for you. We should give confidence to kids while they are doing study. We should promote some game activities so that they become motivated and focused towards their study . Help kids to understand about social responsibilities. Always remember we are the strength of kids. The more time we spend with them this will increase their happiness . Ask them if they are facing any problem in their life and help them to cope with it. Parents also need to discuss with each other about their life also. Our family issues can be solved only by expressing them not by hiding them.